I Really Am Two Dads.

It's true, you know - I am not really a "father of two", I am, in fact, two dads.  It's absurd to say that I'm the same dad from both kids' point of view.  Each of their  experience in having a dad is entirely unique, and should be considered as such.

You are not the same dad to all your kids.  This is a good thing - they are unique, and so should you be.