Friday, January 13, 2012

Coping Mecca-nisms.

I've mentioned before the thrill when a personal hunch turns out to coincide with a fully developed academic theory - and it seems I've stumbled on to another one.

I've long observed startling patterns in how people deal with issues that are presented to them - in my own mind I had created a rough summary that I called The Six Ds":


  • Delegate - Make it someone else's problem.
  • Defer / Delay - Why do today what you can put off until tomorrow?
  • Deny - What problem?
  • Distort - The problem really isn't as big as you think it is.
  • Dismiss - It's not actually a problem.
  • Deal With / Do - Hand me a shovel.
I see these all the time - at work, in projects, in politics...once you start looking for patterns in how people are avoiding an issue, you can't stop seeing them.

In the back of my mind I had also started to think on how one would calculate the economic cost of each of these strategies.  Perhaps something like this:

Final Cost  =  Original Cost  x  Coping Strategy Factor

Where the Coping Strategy Factor of just dealing with the issue was 1, and the varied for the others.

Note that I'm not suggesting that any of these strategies are inherently "bad", in fact delegating an issue to the right person can often be more efficient than dealing with it yourself.  Likewise, deferring an issue is a very real option for a time-bound non-critical low-risk issue.

But alas, I am 23 years late.  I finally got around to searching the literature and found this rather thorough treatment of coping strategies (I kind of expected this - that's why I had deferred looking for it):

Assessing coping strategies: A theoretically based approach.
Carver, Charles S.;Scheier, Michael F.;Weintraub, Jagdish K.
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 56(2), Feb 1989, 267-283. 
doi: 10.1037/0022-3514.56.2.267


And here's the important bit - their (exceptional) classification system:


I'm not well-versed enough in psychology to know if this is a seminal paper (I'll ask my mother next chance I get) but it's certainly an interesting read and a well-structured model.  I haven't seen anything in there about modelling the economic cost of each strategy, so there's still a bit more looking to do.

It's good to hear a story about a big company doing the right thing.


Amazon may not be a "trendy" tech company, but at least they know how to get the basics right.

Best line:
“Well, hell, we’re sorry about this, how about we sort this out quickly and cheaply for you instead of humping you right in the eyesockets and stealing your wallet?”

Thursday, January 12, 2012

This is what happens when a choreographer tries to take the piss.

"OK, balance your entire body on the very tip of your big toe, on top of some guy's forehead, spinning in a circle while he prances around the stage.  And stick your other foot around your head.  Then do a flip."

"Holy crap."

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Finally look the way you've always dreamed.

"You don't have to rely on a healthy body image or self respect any more."

Tuesday, January 03, 2012

I Love The World.

It just keeps getting better.

Exhibit A: A portable Super Nintendo that can just be bought from the shop.  For money.  Off the shelf.  Legitimately.

My favourite part is the top review:
"So in conclusion i love the Supaboy. Its so bad. The day it came in the mail was the best day of my life. Take that birth of my son."